1 of those days..

Was saving my email in another folder when I saw an old email in the folder. Actually, it's the 1 & only mail in that folder. Sent on 29 May 2004. Yes.. It's a 4 year old mail now..

Read thro part of it.. Kinda like a quick glance at the main points and I couldn't read further. I didn't want to. The mail was sent by Tom, my ex-bf now. It was a reply to a mail that I had sent him after we broke up for the 1st time in 2004. That break up broke my heart then.. It still did when it happened a 2nd time in 2007.

In 2004 when it happened, we got together again 1 month later. Ww broke up again in 2007 May.. And it's 2008 June now...This time round, we didn't get together. Will it happen again? I really dunno and I'm don't wanna think about it.

If u ask me, have I totally let it go? My answer is, I really dunno. 3.5 years of relationship, is it that easy to let go? At times, I still do think about him now and then but I know when to stop. It's time to move on.. I have... Or have I? Haha. I'm mad..

K.. Enough of my thinking back.. We need to look towards the future, not the past. What's happened has happened. The fact is I'm attached. It's just 1 of those days where I'm nostalgic and it all happened coz of 1 email.

It's just 1 of those days where I think of the past.. :) The future is in our hands. I will look forward to the future. :p

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