Trust
Jus came home from hospital. Dad refused to let me come home today. He's being very naughty these days. Keeps tugging and pulling at the tubes, etc. Sighz.. Kept scolding him and beating his hand. And I haven't had dinner. Starving now! Double sighz...
Anyway, was talking to Melissa in office today regarding the issue of trust between bf & gf. Sometimes, I wonder why people wanna get together only to be suspicious of their other half. Why is it that they like to check each other's text messages or listen in to the conversations? I don't understand. If you don't trust the person, then why be together in the 1st place? I, for one, hate having people check my mobile phone for any reason. It's privacy that people should learn to respect.
Was talking to JZ last nite and we touched on this issue as well. We both have the same thinking. If you wanna read my text messages, then be prepared for me to do it to you as well. But most people only allow it one way but not both ways. That applies to Melissa's bf. It's not healthy and will only cause problems and arguments in the long run. Bad bad.
Also, I don't understand the simple thinking of "get more money, being a leader". Sighz.. Maybe what I look for in a job is different from others.
Anyway, 3 days of 2008 have come and gone. It's a new beginning for me where I have to learn to be more independent than ever. To be happy and to let go of my past. I have been happy for the past 2 weeks actually. It's a phase that I hope will never ever end. If time can stop and let my happiness stay (preferably with my dad being ok), I'll gladly let time come to a standstill.
Thinking of exercising flexi Friday tomorrow coz I've never used it before. Thought of leaving at 5pm to visit Dad 1st, then meet Bee for dinner. Probably heading somewhere else after that provided we don't end dinner too late. Will see how things go.
K.. The hungry gal needs food right now. :p Time to eat my ice cream! Yay!
Anyway, was talking to Melissa in office today regarding the issue of trust between bf & gf. Sometimes, I wonder why people wanna get together only to be suspicious of their other half. Why is it that they like to check each other's text messages or listen in to the conversations? I don't understand. If you don't trust the person, then why be together in the 1st place? I, for one, hate having people check my mobile phone for any reason. It's privacy that people should learn to respect.
Was talking to JZ last nite and we touched on this issue as well. We both have the same thinking. If you wanna read my text messages, then be prepared for me to do it to you as well. But most people only allow it one way but not both ways. That applies to Melissa's bf. It's not healthy and will only cause problems and arguments in the long run. Bad bad.
Also, I don't understand the simple thinking of "get more money, being a leader". Sighz.. Maybe what I look for in a job is different from others.
Anyway, 3 days of 2008 have come and gone. It's a new beginning for me where I have to learn to be more independent than ever. To be happy and to let go of my past. I have been happy for the past 2 weeks actually. It's a phase that I hope will never ever end. If time can stop and let my happiness stay (preferably with my dad being ok), I'll gladly let time come to a standstill.
Thinking of exercising flexi Friday tomorrow coz I've never used it before. Thought of leaving at 5pm to visit Dad 1st, then meet Bee for dinner. Probably heading somewhere else after that provided we don't end dinner too late. Will see how things go.
K.. The hungry gal needs food right now. :p Time to eat my ice cream! Yay!
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