change..

are changes good? caught up with jean today n realised that many of us have changed.. in terms of dressing, the friends we have, our mentality, personality, etc. i guess there can be good n bad changes.

as for me, what i've noticed n close friends have noticed about my change is that i seem to have more gal friends now than guy friends n i'm closer to these gal friends than the guy friends. i no longer play the field as i used to n i talk more to gals than guys nowadays. the only close guy friends i have now are basically ali n josh n mayb a few guy friends whom i've known for quite long. is that considered a good change? not very sure but to most people, it should be a good change. at least i won't be labelled a flirt anymore. haha.

i'm sure people change for a reason, be it good or bad. my sec close friend has changed so much in her attitude n outlook of life that i feel as if i don't know her anymore. the change is simply too drastic for me to accept. i don't know what's the reason behind her change but i'm sure there must be a reason for it.

when a person changes, it's definitely not up to us to judge whether it's good or bad. who are we to judge another person? but when we don't feel comfortable with that person's change, we will assume and feel that it is bad. if that person sees nothing wrong with his/her change, i guess there's nothing much that we can do. we can only accept the person's change n life just carries on.

so, are changes good or bad?