Definition of Love

Sometime back, somebody told me that the word love is being used too easily. Couples often use the words "I love you" on each other but what is the definition of love? I know there is no right or wrong answer to the question but when someone says "I love you", what is he/she feeling and thinking?

I've been pondering about that topic.. Love. What is love? When I say "I love you", what goes through my head? Falling in love with a person is easy but maintaining the love, that's the difficult part. Of coz when we say "I love you", we mean it at the moment but what happens when the feelings start to fade? The love just dies.. Shouldn't love be something that lasts forever?

This topic is so good for debates but I don't want to debate over this topic. Someone once told me many years ago that I don't know what love is. Maybe til this day, I still dunno what it is. I don't think I'll have the courage to say "I love you" to a person for now coz I'm still trying to figure out what love is. I used to think that when I can see the future with my partner, that is true love and will last forever. Guess that's not true anymore. Must re-define the meaning of love again.

All that I know is that if the guy I love is happier without me, I will not force him to be with me. As long as the guy is happy, I'll be happy for him. If I truly love a person, I will not hate the person even if we don't work out together or if we didn't even get to begin in the first place. True love doesn't come easily.. To those who are in love, stay happy and treasure the moment.

As for me, I still need to find the meaning of true love..

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