Anti-Social Attitude Problem

As my title say, I think I'm gonna be anti-social soon and also change my attitude problem. Wonder if it's coz of stress at work or I'm suffering from PMS, I lost my temper in office today. Sighz.. Really can't take it anymore. The newbies are simply killing me with the way they work, the way they shirk responsibility, the way they push the blame to others and rebutt you like you are in the wrong and that they are correct. Drove me to the wall today especially with all the reportings to the senior management. Things in Dec were not even done properly. It's really terrible... :(

Anyway, I've decided.. I'll control my temper and no matter how wrong they do things, I'll just keep it within myself. But do not expect me to be superbly happy and bubbly coz that will not happen. But I'll just say and be more nonchalent about stuff. I'll be less of a perfectionist as they are definitely not up to standard and never will be up to standard. I'll open one eye and close one eye with most things and I will not take the blame and responsibility for them anymore. They have to learn to grow up. Too bad if they don't like it. But that's all I can do.

D&D is coming soon. I've bought a new dress, new heels and a new bag. Spent quite a lot on this D&D. I'm such a spendthrift. Sighz...

Just realised that this is my 150th post on this blog address.. But.. It's not a happy post. Wonder why I wanna torture myself staying on in this dept when there is a vacancy at the dept I wanna try out for and a boss that I like and I'm close to. Why am I staying on to suffer? Why am I tolerating the shit that I'm getting from the newbies? Sucks.. Truly sucks big time. And I've been headhunted as well. So why am i killing myself here? I really wonder.. Wonder why...

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